The behavior she describes is dramatic --- but also listen for the "pattern of power and control".
- ILLUSION of woman being dominant partner. "He did this especially at the beginning by IDOLIZING me."
- ISOLATION. "...because I had made him feel so safe and loved that he didn't need to prove himself on Wall Street anymore."
- INTRODUCE the threat of violence (These are physical examples, but they could also be psychological, emotional, spiritual, etc).