The behavior she describes is dramatic --- but also listen for the "pattern of power and control".

  1. ILLUSION of woman being dominant partner. "He did this especially at the beginning by IDOLIZING me."
  2. ISOLATION. "...because I had made him feel so safe and loved that he didn't need to prove himself on Wall Street anymore."
  3. INTRODUCE the threat of violence (These are physical examples, but they could also be psychological, emotional, spiritual, etc).